At the beginning of this century Helen Hunt and Mel Gibson (remember them?) starred in a movie with a very suggestive title “What Women Want”, these three simple words offered a world of possibilities for screen play writers, but the 90’s naivety was still intact and what the audience got was another cheesy movie full of clichés about the way men and women related back then.
Almost twenty years have passed since the film’s 2000 release and major success in the box office but that question remains more valid than ever, but today a movie with such title would shamelessly portrait every part of women’s tastes, including sex, a topic that was taboo back then and that to this day many people consider inappropriate not only in films but even in normal everyday conversations.
This has led to wide ignorance about what pleases women in the bed, their tastes, preferences and G-spots, and the worst part is that among many sexually active men the lack of knowledge is a determining factor for bad sexual relations.
If you want to please a woman, this goes beyond looks, or penis size, it’s all about technique. They care more about the environment surrounding intercourse than us, the context really matters for them so this is good way to start if you want to make them burst in pleasure.
Some men don’t know the importance of oral sex, which is definitely a major source of enjoyment for them, so please don’t look at it as if it’s only a necessary step before vaginal penetration, a kind of toll you have to pay before really getting on the highway. Oral sex is all they might need to enjoy sex and it’s all you might need to leave a good impression.
It is also a question of market forces, guys who practice good oral sex are scarce and girls who enjoy it are a multitude, so just do the math; learning how to play down there can give you enormous market advantage. Since we want your share value to increase, we’re going to give you three simple tricks that will make them go crazy, but before that, keep in mind that the more relaxed you both are the better, so get her as comfortable as possible and try to be it yourself, they can tell if you’re not, believe me.
1. It’s all about rhythm
They love intensity changes, start very slow, kiss her neck, then her chest and gently move down, by the time you reach her vagina she should already be turned on, once there, start licking softly at first and then harder and harder, throw in a bit of sucking to and she’ll be really grateful. Try changing the pace every now and then. This is like a song, if you stay on the same note, people get bored.
2. Be a Clitoris PhD
This is a major source of enjoyment for women and if you know how to work it you can make her burst in pleasure as she comes one, two and three times. The tip of the clitoris is where most of the fun happens, suck it gently and then harder, lick a bit and introduce a couple of fingers in her vagina for maximum excitation.
3. Tongue and fingers will do the job
They also love finger stroking while you tongue is down there. Don’t be scared to be firm while you stimulate her, she’ll probably like it, and if you’re going in to hard, her or her body language will make it clear. If you manage to combine your tongue with good fingering most of the job will be done.
These simple tricks will get you started in the amazing world of really good oral sex, we assure you they will be very grateful.